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#36

Building Trust: How Consistency, Embodiment, and Surrender Shape Self-Trust and Relationships

In this episode of The Circle Podcast, Eric and Tim go all in on the many dimensions of trust—from how we cultivate trust within ourselves to how we navigate the messy terrain of trusting others, institutions, and even the universe.With personal stories, embodiment reflections, and real-world examples from breathwork, therapy, and men’s work, they unpack why trust is so deeply linked to safety, regulation, consistency, and surrender. Whether you're rebuilding self-trust after a rupture, discerning who and what to trust externally, or learning to let go of control, this episode meets you right at the edge—offering insight, humor, and heart along the way.🔑 5 Foundational Questions from the Episode:What helps me trust myself—and what disrupts that trust?How do I know when I can trust someone else?What role does nervous system regulation play in building trust?When is control a barrier to trust and when is it a safety mechanism?Can I trust in something greater—like the universe, spirit, or intuition?⏱️ Episode Time Markers:00:00 – Intro: Why Trust is Foundational 02:13 – What Do You Trust Most? The Journal Prompt 06:08 – Trust and Self-Consistency: How We Build It 11:42 – Trust and Safety in the Body 16:26 – Rigidity vs. Flexibility in Daily Practice 20:45 – Reclaiming Trust After a “Missed” Commitment 26:30 – The Role of Felt Sense and Embodiment in Trust 33:10 – Abandoning Self to “Trust” Others: Fear & Lack 37:40 – The Pattern Before the Ping: Making Aligned Decisions 43:16 – Trusting the Universe: From Skeptic to Surrender 49:00 – Acupuncture, Energy, and the Evolution of Belief 52:32 – Magic, Language & Repetition: Spiritual Trust Building 56:20 – Breathwork and Control: Working With Internal Authority 1:00:02 – Final Reflections & One Last Breath Practice 1:01:20 – Closing Ceremony: Gratitude and Integration🔗 Follow Along and Engage With Us:YouTube → @QueerMensEmbodimentInstagram → @queermensembodimentApple Podcasts → Listen HereSpotify → Listen HereMerch Store → Shop Now1:1 Coaching with Tim Bish → timothybish.com/coachingSend a Voice Note to Tim & Eric → Ask a Question
#35

Circles of Care: Queer Intimacy, Radical Fairies & Healing Through the AIDS Epidemic

In this episode of The Circle Podcast, we’re joined by Jonathan Scott—also known as Wild Blue Yonder and Esther the Village Mermaid—for a deeply moving conversation about queer resilience, the Radical Fairy movement, and the healing power of gathering in circle.A longtime community organizer and founder of the Victory Programs, Jonathan shares his lived experience from the height of the AIDS epidemic, when queer communities, abandoned by institutions, created sacred spaces for care, grief, breath, and belonging. From heart circles in treatment centers to radical fairy sanctuaries, he reminds us that intimacy, connection, and breath can be medicine—especially when systems fail.We explore:✨ The birth of “circles of care” during the AIDS crisis✨ What the Radical Fairy movement teaches about subject-to-subject connection✨ How breathwork and storytelling offer deep healing✨ The importance of queer spaces beyond clubs and apps✨ Intimacy without performance—and the freedom of just beingWhether you lived through the epidemic or are learning this history for the first time, this episode offers essential wisdom for queer healing, spiritual embodiment, and collective care.00:00 Introduction and Welcome00:23 Meet Jonathan Scott and Esther, the Village Mermaid01:18 Circles of Care During the AIDS Epidemic04:51 The Power of Heart Circles08:33 Living Through Two Pandemics15:51 Radical Fairies and Heart Circles21:55 The Importance of Unapologetic Expression28:11 Navigating Expectations in Queer Spaces29:13 The Power of Intentional Gatherings32:52 Creating Safe and Intimate Spaces34:16 The Importance of Compassion and Connection37:22 The Role of Rituals and Ceremonies45:21 Honoring the Past and Building the Future49:16 Concluding Reflections and Gratitude🔔 Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more conversations on men’s work, queer embodiment, and healing.#AIDSEpidemic #RadicalFairy #QueerHistory #QueerHealing #LGBTQPodcast #MensWork #Embodiment #JonathanScott #Breathwork #HeartCircle #GayMenHealing #SubjectToSubject #QueerResilience #Provincetown #TheCirclePodcast #LGBTQWellness #LGBTQHistory
#34

Taking It All In: The Art of Receiving Without Shame or Obligation

Why is it so hard to simply take it in—a compliment, a gift, a moment of care, or even a deep breath? In this episode of The Circle Podcast, Eric and Tim unpack the cultural, emotional, and personal blocks that make receiving feel vulnerable, awkward, or even shameful. Whether it’s feeling unworthy of love, fearing hidden strings, or being conditioned to always give and never rest, many men—especially queer men—struggle to let themselves receive without guilt or defensiveness.Drawing from men’s work, embodiment practice, and real-life stories, they explore how receiving is not just a passive act—it’s a courageous, embodied practice. From reframing sexual dynamics and compliments to learning how to accept rest, nourishment, and reflection, this episode is a call to stop over-giving and start letting yourself be filled.Topics in this episode:Why many men equate giving with value and receiving with weaknessHow cultural scripts and shame block us from receiving love and supportWhat it means to receive without obligation, guilt, or needing to “even the score”The link between control, resistance, and the fear of vulnerabilityEmbodied practices to expand your capacity to receiveWhy rest, intimacy, and stillness matter just as much as actionPerfect for givers feeling depleted, men exploring new dynamics in queer intimacy, or anyone learning to drop the armor and take in the goodness being offered.
#33

The Shaman’s Mind: Jonathan Hammond on Queer Wisdom, Nature’s Intelligence, and the Power to Co-Create Reality

In this episode of The Circle, Eric and Tim sit down with Jonathan Hammond—author, spiritual teacher, and trained shamanic practitioner—to explore how earth-based spirituality and Hawaiian wisdom can help us reclaim authenticity, heal limiting beliefs, and reimagine a more connected world. From the ancient role of queer people in shamanic cultures to the modern practice of manifestation, the conversation weaves together collective consciousness, two-spirit identity, imagination, and the sacred relationship between humans and the natural world.Jonathan unpacks core teachings from his book The Shaman’s Mind, introduces two of the Seven Principles of Huna (including "The world is what you think it is" and "There are no limits"), and offers a powerful reminder that healing is a practice of choosing again—and again. Whether you're curious about spiritual practices outside of religion, seeking grounding during turbulent times, or looking to deepen your connection with your inner truth, this episode offers both inspiration and practical insight.Topics covered include:What is shamanism and how it relates to queer identityHawaiian spiritual psychology and the Seven Principles of HunaHow nature models authenticity and interconnectionThe role of imagination in spiritual practice and personal growthTwo-Spirit traditions and the sacredness of queernessWhy belief shapes reality—and how to shift yours consciouslyHow to stay centered and creative in a world that feels chaoticSpiritual leadership through example and choosing again
#32

Remembering to Pretend: Why Imagination Might Be the Most Important Grown-Up Thing You’ve Forgotten

In this episode of The Circle Podcast, Eric and Tim explore the transformative power of imagination—not as a childhood relic, but as a radical tool for adult healing, creative expression, emotional intelligence, and personal growth. From visualizing future goals to softening interpersonal conflicts, they unpack how reconnecting with our imaginations can help queer men reclaim authorship over their lives.Drawing from their own experiences in embodiment practice and men’s work, they reflect on the role imagination plays in everything from visualization and manifestation to empathy, problem-solving, and intimacy. The episode also looks at why so many men struggle with creative visualization—and how to begin rebuilding that muscle.Whether you were told to “grow up” and abandon your inner world, or you’ve just struggled to visualize your future with clarity, this episode is a powerful invitation to reclaim imagination as a birthright and a practice.Topics include:Why imagination is essential for men’s work and embodimentThe link between imagination, manifestation, and creativityHow visualization supports emotional regulation and nervous system healthWhy queer men often struggle with imagination—and how to reclaim itThe difference between imagination, creativity, and serious playVisualization tools, archetypal work, and real-world examplesHow catastrophizing is also a form of imagination—and how to flip the script
#19

Reclaiming Fitness: Queer Strength, Body Image, and Self-Love | GBTQ+ Wellness with Matt Boyles

How do queer men reclaim fitness as a space of empowerment rather than exclusion? In this episode of The Circle, we sit down with Matt Boyles, founder of Fitter Confident You, a fitness platform designed specifically for gay, bi, and trans men. Together, we explore the intersection of body image, societal expectations, and movement—unpacking the hyper-focus on aesthetics in queer spaces and how it impacts our confidence, mental health, and relationship with fitness.Matt shares his personal journey from feeling like an outsider in sports to creating a safe, inclusive fitness community that prioritizes joy, strength, and self-acceptance over competition and comparison. We dive deep into:The impact of early experiences with fitness and how they shape our adult relationship with movementHow body insecurity can lead to avoidance or addictive behaviors in queer menThe power of community and safe spaces in making fitness approachable for everyoneHow embodiment practices help men develop a more loving, intuitive connection with their bodiesWhether you’ve felt alienated by traditional fitness culture or are looking to build a healthier relationship with movement, this conversation is for you. Join us as we reimagine what fitness can look like when it’s rooted in self-compassion, inclusivity, and fun.💡 Connect with Matt Boyles and learn more about Fitter Confident You at https://fitteryou.net/📲 Follow The Circle on Instagram at @queermensembodiment🎧 Like, subscribe, and leave a review wherever you get your podcasts!
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