Urgency Without the Rush: Moving Quickly with Presence and Purpose | Men’s Work Podcast
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Urgency Without the Rush: Moving Quickly with Presence and Purpose | Men’s Work Podcast

Urgency doesn’t have to mean rushing. In this episode of The Circle, Eric Bomyea and Timothy Bish explore urgency and embodiment, unpacking how to move quickly with purposeful action instead of reactive rushing.

Drawing from personal stories—airport chaos, bartending mishaps, and even Tim’s professional dance training—they discuss how urgency impacts the nervous system, why it often feeds perfectionism, and how to regulate it through embodiment practices.

You’ll learn:
  • The difference between rushing vs. moving with purpose
  • How to recognize physical signs of urgency in the body
  • Simple mindfulness and nervous system tools to stay grounded under pressure
  • How to turn urgency into an embodied spark for action rather than a source of stress
Perfect for anyone navigating busy days, high-pressure moments, or exploring men’s work and embodiment practices to stay present and steady.

Chapter Markers
0:00 – Welcome & Introduction
2:10 – Urgency as a Learned Survival Tool
7:35 – The Difference Between Moving Quickly and Rushing
11:50 – Physical Signs of Rushing vs. Purposeful Movement
17:05 – Ayurvedic & Yogic Perspectives on Natural Pace
22:40 – Airport Stories: Regulating in High-Pressure Moments
30:55 – Internal vs. External Urgency: Creating It from Care & Purpose
38:20 – Fitness, Perfectionism, and Rushing the Body
44:10 – Urgency as a Spiritual Spark (Kirtan & Longing)
50:25 – Embodiment Tools to Work with Urgency
55:40 – Closing Reflections & Takeaways

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Creators and Guests

Eric Bomyea
Host
Eric Bomyea
Eric Bomyea has a curiosity for life and a passion for personal growth. While his journey into men’s work and spirituality is relatively new, he has found a deep connection through attending Tim's embodiment circle for the past year. Eric is currently training in the Transpersonal Facilitation Program under the guidance of Amir Khalighi. Having been sober for almost two years, his path has been one of self-discovery and exploring new ways to show up authentically. He approaches men’s work with humility and an open heart, eager to dive deeper into the unknown alongside his friend and co-host, Tim
Timothy Bish
Host
Timothy Bish
Timothy Bish has been a dedicated student of personal growth and spirituality for as long as he can remember. His journey began in New York City at the Jivamukti Yoga School, where he became an Advanced Certified Jivamukti Yoga Teacher. This practice ignited his passion for physical and subtle body wellness, leading him to explore Acupuncture and Chinese Medicine. During the pandemic, Tim discovered Men’s Work and completed the Men’s Wisdom Work coach training program in 2020. He then met his current teacher, Amir Khalighi, with Embodied Masculine, and completed the Men's Wisdom Initiation Program, as well as Levels 1 and 2 of the Transpersonal Facilitation Training. Tim now serves as the lead assistant for that program alongside Amir. In addition to coaching and facilitating, Tim is the founder of the Men’s Embodiment Circle in Provincetown, where he continues to help men on their journey of personal and spiritual growth