In this episode of The Circle, Eric and Tim explore how men can shift from living in a world of “shoulds” and obligations to consciously choosing their actions with clarity and intention. Drawing from men’s embodiment practices, Marshall Rosenberg’s Nonviolent Communication, and mindfulness techniques, they unpack the subtle but powerful difference between “I have to” and “I choose to.”
Through personal reflections and recent men’s circles, they discuss how cultural conditioning shapes our internalized expectations, the role of discomfort in decision-making, and the transformative power of pausing before acting. Can we reclaim autonomy by understanding our true motivations? Is “should” always a burden, or can it be used consciously? And how does embodiment practice help us notice the patterns in our bodies before they dictate our choices?
Join the conversation as Eric and Tim challenge conventional ideas of duty and obligation, inviting men to move beyond mindless action and into deeper self-awareness and freedom.
Episode 20
