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In this episode of The Circle, Eric and Tim welcome Jeffrey Schaffer, a nurse and LGBTQ+ program manager, to explore how queer men can approach healthcare with confidence and authenticity. They dive into how men’s work provides tools to navigate medical spaces, unpack stigma, and advocate for oneself with courage and clarity. Discover practical advice on overcoming shame, working with fear, and finding your voice in the often-intimidating realm of sexual and overall health. With a focus on empathy, shared human experience, and empowerment, this conversation is a guide for anyone seeking better care and connection.### Disclaimer: The content discussed in this episode is for informational and conversational purposes only and should not be considered medical advice. While our guest is a licensed nurse, this podcast does not serve as a substitute for professional medical consultation, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of a qualified healthcare provider with any questions or concerns you may have regarding your health or medical conditions.

In this episode of The Circle, Tim and Eric break down the difference between fear-based, control-driven power and a more authentic, heart-centered approach to strength. They challenge the “strong man” stereotype—where force and dominance prevail—and introduce men’s work principles that help men tap into self-awareness, conscious choice-making, and genuine leadership. From acknowledging bristling egos to exploring the warrior archetype in new ways, they show how queer men’s embodiment and personal growth practices can foster resilience, vulnerability, and deeper connection. If you’re ready to step beyond old models of masculinity and embrace authentic power that builds trust, admiration, and harmony, this episode is for you. Are you ready to go all in?

In this episode of The Circle Podcast, we dive into the world of superheroes with special guest Phil Jimenez, renowned comic book artist and writer. Together, we explore how the traits that define our favorite heroes—presence, authenticity, vulnerability, and courage—are also the “superpowers” everyday men can cultivate through men’s work. Phil shares his perspective on how these qualities show up in both his creative process and personal journey, offering insights into how men can embrace their own heroic potential in daily life. Whether you’re a fan of comics, curious about men’s work, or looking to unlock your own inner superhero, this episode is packed with inspiration and practical wisdom.

In this episode of The Circle, we explore two core approaches in men’s work: masculine embodiment (clear, structured, linear steps) versus feminine embodiment (open-ended, unstructured, fluid exploration) and discover how each can expand your personal growth. Join us as we explore why perfectionism often emerges in structured, linear practices and how letting go of the “right way” through unstructured, flow-based methods can transform your mindset. We also discuss the profound impact these contrasting styles have on discipline, spontaneity, and men’s embodiment.From breath work routines that build self-discipline to freeform movement exercises that release restrictive narratives, we examine how integrating both styles fosters resilience and emotional freedom. If you’ve ever wondered how to balance accountability with creativity, or how to navigate perfectionism while staying open to possibility, this conversation is for you. Whether you’re used to strict routines or prefer intuitive exploration, discover how balancing masculine and feminine energies can deepen your men’s work journey.

In this episode of The Circle, we challenge the prevailing notion that a man’s worth is measured by what he does, rather than who he truly is. We examine the cultural pressures that drive men to define themselves by their careers, achievements, and external success markers—and how this often leads to disconnection, stress, and a loss of authentic identity.Drawing from men’s work principles and queer embodiment perspectives, we explore why accomplishments alone can’t sustain real fulfillment. Instead, we invite listeners to consider how presence, integrity, and meaningful relationships can shape a more holistic sense of self. Whether you’ve struggled with feeling “not enough” without certain titles or are simply curious about men’s work, personal growth, and authentic living, this conversation offers fresh insights and practical steps to break free from the “doing” trap.

In this episode of The Circle, we tackle the transformative process of letting go of harmful narratives and limiting beliefs that hold us back. Drawing inspiration from a recent embodiment circle, we reflect on common struggles men face—feeling unloved, undeserving of love, or carrying shame, particularly as queer men.What You’ll Learn:* How to identify and confront self-imposed limitations and societal expectations.* Practical tools for detoxing emotional and mental blocks.* The power of creating space for love, acceptance, and self-worth.* Why shedding outdated beliefs is essential for embracing an authentic, liberated self.Join us as we explore how men can release shame and step into their fullest potential through men’s work, embodiment practices, and intentional self-reflection. This episode is for anyone ready to rewrite their inner narrative and build a life rooted in self-acceptance and authenticity.

Men’s Work often asks us to meet our edge—the point where we encounter discomfort and resistance. In this episode, we discuss what it means for men to confront their edges and how Men’s Work can help them push through to new levels of personal growth. We share practices for navigating these moments and embracing the transformation that happens on the other side.

In this special episode, hosts Timothy Bish and Eric Bomyea take you behind the mic to share their stories, their connection to men’s work, and why they’re passionate about creating a space for queer men to explore personal growth, embodiment, and spirituality.Discover how Tim’s journey as a professional dancer and acupuncturist intertwined with his passion for embodiment practices, and hear Eric’s powerful story of transformation through sobriety, entrepreneurship, and finding community in Provincetown.Together, they reflect on their paths, the creation of The Circle Podcast, and their mission to bring men—especially queer men—into conversations that heal, inspire, and expand.

Join us as we recap our recent men’s embodiment retreat. Tim has attended eight retreats, while this was Eric’s first. We discuss the power of showing up in these spaces, especially as a queer man, and the challenges and opportunities it presents. We cover what happens at a men’s retreat, the growth that unfolds, and how queer men can show up authentically in spaces that challenge traditional masculinity.

Holding space is one of the most powerful gifts men can offer to others. In this episode, we explore the art of holding space, creating space for self and others, and the concept of sacred drala—a spiritual awareness that enhances presence and intention. We dive into how men can develop these skills to foster deeper connections and create environments of safety, trust, and openness.

What role does intuition play in Men’s Work? This episode explores how intuition goes beyond instinct or perception, becoming a key tool in decision-making and personal growth. We discuss how men can develop and trust their intuition, avoid over-analysis, and align with their deeper truths. Through embodiment and mindfulness practices, we explore how intuition can be cultivated to help men live more authentically.

Presence is key to Men’s Work, offering men the ability to ground themselves and develop a heightened awareness of their emotions and actions. In this episode, we discuss what it means to be fully present and the importance of embodiment practices in helping men become more aligned with themselves. Tim shares his experiences leading men’s circles and how presence supports personal growth and relationship dynamics.

In this special episode, we sit down with Colin Stack-Troost, a queer psychotherapist, to explore the unique mental health challenges that men face, especially queer men. We discuss why men’s work and embodiment practices can be transformative tools for all men to heal, grow, and find connection. Colin brings his expertise to highlight how men’s shared cultural expectations and pressures can create obstacles, and why finding spaces where men can mirror and validate each other’s feelings is crucial. Learn how men’s work provides a powerful opportunity for queer men to connect with others who understand their perspective through lived experience.

In this episode, we investigate the core needs of men, particularly the search for purpose and how Men’s Work can align men with their intentions and values. We explore how living with integrity and devotion allows men to lead with love, authenticity, and impact, focusing on collective well-being rather than personal gain.

In this episode, we revisit the dynamic interplay between masculine and feminine energies. We explore how these energies manifest in daily life, beyond the confines of gender and sex, and how men—especially queer men—can harness them for deeper self-expression and personal growth. We also discuss Yin and Yang, Alpha and Omega, and how to find balance in a way that feels authentic to who you are.

In this debut episode, we explore the foundations of Men’s Work and embodiment practices, with a focus on how these tools uniquely benefit queer men. We discuss the Provincetown Men’s Embodiment Circle, the purpose of this podcast, and our personal journeys. Topics include the integration of masculine and feminine energies, challenging societal norms, and how Men’s Work helps heal psychological wounds and create deeper connections with ourselves and others